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On Wednesday, a friend posted on social media that he had an extra ticket to go see singer/songwriter/trans icon/punk rocker Laura Jane Grace in the next town over, and did anyone want to take hi...

https://janitorqueer.com/2022/03/05/laura-jane-grace-and-her-dysphoria-hoodie/

Last week, I got my hair cut by a professional for the first time in over 20 years. Why haven’t I done this sooner?! I was aware that I had acquired some stubborn habits around my hair, and I w...

https://janitorqueer.com/2022/01/06/haircut/

I like to keep tabs on when I go on and off testosterone, and I’m pretty far behind this time around.  About a month ago, I went back to my stash of Androgel 1.62%.  I had stockpiled it years...

https://janitorqueer.com/2019/12/29/back-on-testosterone/

So I’ve been blogging for a while now, and I haven’t said a whole lot about my spouse, basically out of respect for their privacy.  But they actually have a lot to say!  Here’s just a lit...

https://janitorqueer.com/2019/09/28/guest-post-caelan-my-spouse/

**Potential spoiler alerts for Orange is the New Black, season 7** My spouse and I were watching Season 7, Episode 8 a couple of weeks ago, and a familiar face suddenly popped up! In Piper’s st...

https://janitorqueer.com/2019/08/31/drag-king-stories-8/

Two days ago, I abruptly hit a wall in my transition journey.  But it’s more like that wall had a secret corridor that I’m now turning down, without really slowing down – just taking a mom...

https://janitorqueer.com/2019/04/23/i-decided-to-stop-taking-testosterone-for-now/

Hey, I have an essay in this anthology, Nonbinary:  Memoirs of Gender and Identity, which is finally being released by Columbia University Press, officially on April 9th, but you can go ahead an...

https://janitorqueer.com/2019/03/30/im-a-published-author/

My hair is the longest its ever been.  It’s also only 3/8 of an inch, on the sides.  I cut and buzz it myself.  I’m not sure whether it was a conscious decision (probably partially conscio...

https://janitorqueer.com/2018/05/22/hair/

In November of my senior year of high school, I had an appointment to see a counselor – my mom had set it up for me.  I’m not sure who she contacted or what route she took to find this perso...

https://janitorqueer.com/2018/04/13/contacting-my-first-therapist-backstory/

I’ve been a part of an all-volunteer, community radio station for over two years, and it’s been an incredible experience, across the board.  I’ve met a bunch of new people, learned how to ...

https://janitorqueer.com/2018/03/29/a-letter-to-address-transphobia/