VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN WITH DISABILITIES Patricia E. Erwin, MA Department of Criminology, Law & Society University of California Irvine, California, 92697-7080 e-mail: perwin@uci.edu An...
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Many people are interested in ways to predict whether they are about to become involved with someone who will be physically abusive. Below is a list of common behaviors that are seen in abus...
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1. Everything she does is deniable. There is always a facile excuse or an explanation. Cruelties are couched in loving terms. Aggressive and hostile acts are paraded as thoughtfulness. Selfis...
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CONTROLLING HER TIME: The abuser controls his partner's time by making her wait. He will say he is ready to talk, but will continue doing something else while his partner waits. He will tell h...
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REALITY AND REVICTIMIZATION... VICTIM, SURVIVOR, VICTIMOLOGY, VICTIM ABUSE... WHY ARE VICTIMS BEING TOLD TO DENY THEIR REALITY? You have been methodically and diabolically abused and su...
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by Maya Shwayder Two months into their relationship, Chris's boyfriend José pushed him to the ground in a fit of anger and ripped the clothes off his body. "We had gone out dancing, and w...
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Domestic Violence Victim Bill of Rights * You have the right NOT to be abused. * You have the right to anger over past abuse. * You have a right to choose to change the situation. * You h...
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Emotional rape has many similarities to physical rape, particularly date rape. Date rape involves the sexual use of someone's body without consent. In a like manner, emotional rape is the use...
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a list of FAVORITE PHRASES (by no means complete!!) "you are my soul mate" or "this is fate" (came up over 50 times on this poll) "I'm sorry that you feel that way" (because I'm not taking re...
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by Learus Ohnine When we try to analyze the people we cross paths with in society, it is possible to misinterpret our analysis for lack of a better understanding. For those who have crossed ...
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Trying to break free from someone who won’t let you go? Wanting to end a relationship with someone who keeps trying suck you back in with manipulations (or fake apologies too) ? You’...
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"When Your Perfect Partner Goes Perfectly Wrong - Loving or Leaving the Narcissist in Your Life"by Mary Jo Fay Chapter 13 The Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde phenomenon that occurs in relationships...
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A person that is narcissistic might have certain characteristics that makes life very difficult for their child. This type of parent can be very self-centered. While narcissistic parents cannot...
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SOCIOPATH A.K.A. ANTI-SOCIAL PERSONALITY DISORDER OR PSYCHOPATH WHEN YOU ARE UNDER LIBELOUS ATTACK BY A PERSON WHO HAS DECEIVED AND DEFRAUDED YOU, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY THAT THE PERSON I...
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By Richard Zwolinski, LMHC, CASAC Neuroscientistific research shows that our memory is strongest and lasts the longest when our emotions are heightened. This helps explain why we might rem...
THE MOST COMMON FORMS OF INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE (IPV) ARE SEXUAL VIOLENCE, SEXUAL COERCION, PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE AND PHYSICAL ABUSE AND EACH CAUSES SIGNIFICANT PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS. ...
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ON VICTIM-BLAMING AND CONTROL It's virtually a law of Internet discussion that any conversation about rape & abuse will turn into a debate about the need for women to keep themselves safe. The...
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ONE TECHNIQUE USED BY ABUSERS & SEDUCERS Confusion Technique The birth of Milton H. Erickson’s Confusion Technique: Milton Erickson’s Collected Papers-Volume I-pg. 259 "One windy day as ...
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INVALIDATION DENIES THE IMPORTANCE OF YOUR EXPERIENCES, YOUR FEELINGS, YOUR THOUGHTS, YOUR WISDOM, AND EVEN YOUR EXISTENCE. INVALIDATION. IT TAKES MANY FORMS, BUT THE PERSON DOING IT IS A...
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The blows of physical or sexual abuse are oftentimes obvious. Broken bones, bruises, and lacerations leave scars as evidence. Yet worst of all are the scars of emotional abuse - nearly invisible...
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Whether consciously or unconciously - this is their "playbook" on how they reel in their victims and keep them in. THE ART OF SEDUCTION by Robert Greene PART TWO 1-CHOOSE THE RIGHT VICTIM ...
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BY CYNDI LOPEZ > I DO NOT LOVE; I DO NOT LOVE ANYBODY EXCEPT MYSELF. THAT IS A RATHER > SHOCKING THING TO ADMIT. I HAVE NONE OF THE SELFLESS LOVE OF MY > MOTHER. I...
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NARCISSISTIC ABUSER AS SLANDERER by Kathy Krajco On their way through life, narcissists leave a trail of trashed good names in their wake. This is a serious problem in the workplace, for narci...
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The Mystery of Loving an Abuser By Joseph M. Carver, PhD -- Mental Health Professional, Clinical Psychologist People are often amazed at their own psychological conditions and reactions. ...
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BY CASSANDRA ABUSERS CAN BE MASTERS OF DISGUISE AND COVERT OPERATIONS. HE OR SHE HONES THEIR SKILLS TO EXPERT PRECISION, LEST PEOPLE SEE THROUGH THE MASK TO THE RUTHLESS AMBITION AND ENVY...
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