Affairs have been my most requested topic this year, so in this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, I explore the real reasons why people have affairs. What a lot of us do is fall...
Sarah asks: I left my cheating ex after going through hell. I managed to get over him after a few months and starting living again. Unfortunately I got back with him after he came sniffing around...
https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/advice-wednesday-i-took-him-back-now-hes-cheating-again/
Have you ever been on the best date ever or best few dates ever, only to be unceremoniously blanked afterwards despite promises of another date? This person wanted to leave you with a really good...
“If you want to be the girlfriend, the wife, have a relationship, have a future, then you’re playing the wrong role here – you don’t take up the Other Woman role when it’s not what you ...
The moment that the decision is made for a relationship to end and the words are final, we feel an immense sense of loss, of insecurity, indignant hurt, and as the dust settles and the days and w...
In my last post I wrote about the key behaviours that assclowns rely on to mistreat you and manage the relationship on their terms including passive aggression, erasing the past by pressing The R...
An assclown is someone that deliberately and consistently goes out of their way to treat you without love, care, trust and respect. They add little or no value to the relationship and the cost to...
Right now, there are thousands of ‘ladies in waiting’ in relationships; women who are willing, waiting, and hoping that the guy they’re with, will leave their girlfriend or wife. ‘Is he g...
https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/is-he-going-to-leave-her-for-me-part-one/
In part one, I talked about how you’re an escape from reality, that all the cheating guys are liars, that the situation is far from being unique, that these guys are manipulators, that they rar...
https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/being-the-other-woman-the-lessons-i-learnt-part-3/
Yesterday, in the first of my three-part series about what I’ve learned about being the Other Woman (OW), I talked about how you’re an escape from reality, that all cheats are liars, that the...
https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/being-the-other-woman-the-lessons-i-learnt-part-2/
I was watching Oprah today (a luxury of being on maternity leave…) and it was a brilliant episode on the touchy subject of being the Other Woman (OW), the often exciting but even more excruciat...
https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/being-the-other-woman-the-lessons-i-learnt-part-1/
There are certain things that throw up a red flag that may indicate that your man is cheating on you. He’s routine to the point of being obstructive to the relationship. Yes, some people are an...