Transgender comedienne, activist and software developer, Daphne Dorman, committed suicide a few days ago at the age of 44. She’s the girl who laughed at Dave Chapelle’s trans jokes and ended ...
Yeah, I know I haven’t posted in forever, but there’s something I wanted to address. I’ve had several transitioning MTFs tell me that they didn’t know if they were going to have GRS bec...
I guess there’s no way to repossess it, now. Technically, I had taken a loan out on my paid-off car so that I’d have enough for the surgery, so it was actually a car loan. I’ve always r...
There are almost 250 bathroom laws either on the books or currently pending legislative passage in the USA. Many contain wording requiring you to use the bathroom that corresponds to the gender...
I’ve been lurking and hearting, for a few days. Unfortunately, about 85% of you have changed your Tumblr names since I was last active on here! Thankfully, a handful of you still have the sam...
If you’re one of my Facebook friends then you’re well aware of what I’ve been up to, lately. If you’re not and you’re interested in saving money without disrupting your life then you sh...
Three years ago, today, I became whole. A lifetime of anticipation was finally realized. I don’t think I really knew what to expect AFTERWARD. I knew it would be different. I knew it would be...
How am I supposed to post a picture of my lunch??? -fretfulchelle
Did you guys know that these things existed? Go ahead and put that on my Christmas list. (Hmmm…, that might actually be a sin. Let me get back to you on that.) From what I’ve read, they sti...
Caitlyn Jenner Could Be Charged With Manslaughter : This was a tragic situation that could easily happen to anyone. For that reason the police say that there’s only a 50% chance that she will...
I’m a pioneer woman, at heart, and totally get lost in those shows. Unfortunately I heard that there won’t be any additional shows being added– not because the market is saturated– but ...
I don’t normally remember my dreams this vividly. If you’re bored to death and like analyzing dreams then have at it– otherwise, feel free to skip it. This dream seemed to occupy about ha...
So here’s the thing– I’m rather conservative. Yes, I know you probably realized that, long ago, but I’m actually going to say it out loud. While I’m generally liberal on most social i...
I have a lot of mixed feelings about the whole Caitlyn Jenner thing. Some good has come from it, though, so I’d like to share some of my thoughts. The Good: Caitlyn is finally getting to whe...
The Bruce Jenner interview re-aired and since a bajillion people had asked me about it I went ahead and watched. I honestly don’t have a lot to say. I tried to be empathetic but couldn’t qu...
I had a mammogram, today. It’s hard to believe that it’s already been two years since the last one. Anyway, when the nurse reviewed my paperwork she said, “You don’t ever answer the que...
My various email and social media boxes have been collecting notes from people asking what I thought of the Bruce Jenner interview. One of my brothers even just called, saying, “Other than winn...
…and it sprays everywhere and you end up with a mess in your hair and on your face. That. -myfirsttimeeverchelle #boughtmyfirstelectrictoothbrush #omgwhatwereYOUthinking? #youhaveafil...
I’m looking for an alternative to QuickBooks. Any suggestions? We use it for payroll, check writing, general bookkeeping, checking account reconciliation and quarterly federal and state payro...
When we host parties, at our house, I sometimes like to booby-trap the two medicine cabinets in my bathroom so that I know who’s a snooper and who isn’t. I close the door most of the way an...