Interestingly most people think that success and a full life are directly due to hard work and, in some instances, education or persistence. However, I’ve been following research that proves th...
A blog about People, Life and all the Stuff in between.
“If you’re reading this, this fu$king brain cancer probably got me.But let me be crystal clear while I’m able: I did not ”lose a battle” against cancer. This is a ridiculous, steamy ...
https://surprisinglives.net/the-truth-about-life-kerri-grote/
“Sometimes all it takes is a moment. The briefest smile, a whispered word, a heartbeat, the tingle of a touch, to change everything, anything, or maybe just whatever thing you’ve always wante...
Lexi, one of my Torti cats, enjoying the sun on my office floor.
“Remember, someone you haven’t even met yet is wondering what it’d be like to know someone like you.”
“The shows over, everyone has gone home. Time to do whatever your soul needs, alone, for yourself.” – Amanda Ricks
Are you there I whispered? Silence echoed back at me, and I sighed in my aloneness. Then, contrarily, I grasped the warm hand softly stroking my imagination. – Amanda Ricks
Spring is here and I’m enjoying all of the lovely spring related photographs and posts that everyone is sharing. I especially appreciate all of the buds and flowers that are popping up in peopl...
A blog about People, Life and all the Stuff in between.
It’s a rainy spring day today in Toronto so this macro shot of spring cherry blossoms seem particularly appropriate. I hope you’re having a good day.
The one lesson my dad tried to instill in ME was the power to make a decision. He didn’t care if it was right or wrong. Make the decision, work with it then decide next step from there. It’s ...
https://surprisinglives.net/the-power-to-make-a-decision-quote/
“Time is perhaps the most precious gift you can give yourself.” – Amanda Ricks
These are strange times, and to me, sometimes it feels as if time is standing still. Then when I least expect it, time suddenly takes back another month or year. And during these weird times, I f...
https://surprisinglives.net/where-inspiration-time-stands-still/
A blog about People, Life and all the Stuff in between.
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Samantha and I saw this funny sign one day on our way out. Title credit to Samantha’s Sam 😂 Yes, Samantha now has someone new in her life and his name is Sam. Cute eh?
One minute you’re young and fun. And the next you’re turning down the stereo in your car to see better. A #FridayFunny to celebrate the coming weekend.
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“Maybe we should write words of encouragement to our older selves not our younger selves.” A little quote for #WednesdayWisdon.
Toronto street car in the snowToronto streetcar in the snow
Getting away from being in lockdown or simply working from home is critical to our mental health. Even if the trip is a short one it can really refresh our outlook. And I think everyone is seekin...
Silent Sunday Night Sky
One of my all-time favourite songs, What a Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong. This post is for #TuesdayTunes
A blog about People, Life and all the Stuff in between.
Nothing beats getting a gorgeous in season flower arrangement.
A new, unique and fresh look at making resolutions for the New Year. A list of suggested guidelines is offered to help you make wise goals instead of resolutions doomed to fail. By Amanda Ricks
A fun, point form post of lesser known psychological facts about human behaviour. Reference links are provided for further reading. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives 2015
https://surprisinglives.net/psychological-facts-about-people/
In one form or another, I’ve been doing this blogging thing for almost a decade. Wow, where did the time go, but more importantly, where are the million followers I was hoping to amass? Just ki...
This year many companies have used the idea of being alone for Christmas as their central advert theme. But for me, Johnnie Walker blew everyone out of the water by featuring Brittany Howard’s ...
https://surprisinglives.net/youll-never-walk-alone-brittany-howard/
Walking the woods – Silent Sunday
The thing about inspiration is that it is so transient. It is completely dependent on the who, what, where, and how the recipient is, at that moment. – Amanda Ricks 2020
https://surprisinglives.net/your-inspiration-is-as-unique-as-you/
I’m always inspired by my friend, Su Leslie’s contributions to various blog challenges. So, hopefully from here and going forward I’m going to offer a contribution too. Be warned, mine won�...
Can you feel the quiet?
https://surprisinglives.net/eyes-shut-breathe-feel-the-quiet/
To me, fading and even wilted flowers have a beauty all their own. Am I somehow trying to find the unique beauty that still exists in ageing? I wonder? Perhaps. I do have a strong dislike of my o...
The earth laughs in flowers. – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Here we are once again, and it’s time for a cuppa at the Virtual Tea Party hosted by Su Leslie over at Zimmerbitch. Wow, where does the time go? This month I’m going for quick and easy, which...
A company called Soul Pancake created a glass booth in d downtown city to demonstrate a new stress relief method. A video of what happened is included. The secret method was playing with kittens....
There’s so much stress, anger, tragedy, and noise going on in the world lately, and of course, it’s all turned up to a deafening roar online. It’s overwhelming to me. It feels like hope, ac...
Morning Glory – Silent Sunday
Every piece of this is man’s bullshit. They call this war a loud over the land, but they made the weather and then they stand in the rain and say, “shit! It’s rainin!” Ruby Thewes from Co...
So, maybe it’s time to decide. Is this the life you want to live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More compassionate? Decide. Brea...
“If I could sit across the porch from God, I’d thank him for lending me, you.” I first read a quote very similar, if not the same as the one above, on a greeting card when I was in my twent...
Debbie Jones shared a lovely poem about being kinder to ourselves. I was immediately drawn to it and felt that the message was a universal one that everyone could benefit from hearing. After De...
https://surprisinglives.net/we-need-to-be-kinder-to-ourselves/
In 2014 I shared a photograph that I thought was not only cool but also a beautiful representation of The Tree of Life. Recently, I shared the photo again on Facebook, and my friend Trev Jones of...
My friend Su Leslie hosts a monthly virtual tea party, which I think is a lovely idea. Unfortunately, I keep messing up the date and end up too late to join in politely. But, this month, I made i...
The ever-talented Jane Lurie recently published a tribute post to John Lewis on her blog, Jane’s Lens. The post moved me tremendously. In large part, I always appreciate Jane’s posts because ...
Sometimes we need to step out of our public space. We need to fix our broken things, mend our worn things, and take care of all the stuff we call, me. – Amanda Ricks
“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everythin...
https://surprisinglives.net/only-once-in-life-you-find-someone/
I’m white and like almost every other white person out there talking or writing about their white privilege right now I have something to say. But what I have to say isn’t what so many others...
Lately, I’ve been thinking about making a difference, or positive impression, in the world. Not a lofty, change the world thing, but rather, have I made a difference to those in my life. Have I...
Need some help on how to find happiness or just plain getting your happy switch turned to the “on” position? Well, after a lot of research and double-checking all of the latest scientific dat...
https://surprisinglives.net/100-plus-tips-lessons-happiness/
The first time I remember seeing an optical illusion picture was when my mother brought home the picture shown below from her work. Someone had been passing it around for everyone to see. “The ...
In 2014 we shared a quote called Some People Never Change. Surprisingly that quote became very popular and even inspired me to write a post about why some people never change. Today, I’m sharin...
https://surprisinglives.net/some-people-never-change-quote-2/
“Every second you use to focus on what other people are thinking of you, is a second where you are not believing in yourself.” It’s time to focus and believe in YOU!
https://surprisinglives.net/time-to-start-believing-in-yourself/
Often when we think of our rights, we think of legal rights, but everyone also has emotional rights. These emotional rights are the boundaries, respect, and consideration that everyone is entitle...
We want to be helpful and dispense hope but how can we do so appropriately? Mark Schaefer knows a way. Those of you who know me from my marketing work probably also know that I am a fan, follower...
https://surprisinglives.net/dispense-hope-from-mark-schaefer/
When times get tough, like they are these days, too many of us jump into caretaker roles trying to fix everything and everyone. But we need to give ourselves credit for our efforts, even when the...
As I’m writing this post, COVID-19 or Coronavirus, is actively sweeping the world. We are all practising social distancing and washing our hands like crazy (hopefully). This pandemic is not fun...
In 2015 I had an online store where I sold digital and print copies of original image quotes. Unfortunately, at the time, I was inexperienced with many ways of the web. One day I shared the follo...
Just when Twitter is again facing criticism the following amazing real-life story is shared. I hope you like it too. By @sixthformpoet ONE; My dad died. Classic start to a funny story. He was bur...
https://surprisinglives.net/death-life-love-a-real-life-story/
The world feels chaotic right now and many of us are struggling, especially in our efforts to stay focused on our human-to-human interactions. A friend of mine, Bryan Kramer, offered some brillia...
It’s not a secret that I’m over forty, (and possibly, maybe, over fifty). So, when I saw this cute and funny post from Women Over Forty, I felt an immediate love for Andy Rooney. Therefore, I...
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Chanie Gorkin wrote a humourous yet illuminating poem about “the absolute worst day ever.” Perhaps you’re already familiar with it. I’ve had this copy in my files for a while, ready to sh...
Pebbles and Samantha napping on a Sunday afternoon.
In celebration of the lovely snow we had to day in Toronto I’m publishing an updated post that I originally shared on AmandaRicks.Com, before it was my business site. These photographs so be...
Sometimes you have to sit with the past a bit before you’re ready for that next step. – Amanda Ricks
Lexi, taken by me, January 2019.
In the group that I co-facilitated, the topic of being different or, more accurately, being considered different and our definition of different came up for discussion. The conversation that resu...
https://surprisinglives.net/fix-our-definition-of-different/
Real strength is not just a condition of one’s muscle, but a tenderness in one’s spirit.
IQ is a fascinating subject and one that is perhaps tested more than it should be for people’s own good. Specifically, jobs listed by average IQ is apparently a popular question for a lot of...
I love quotes. I read them, share them, and write a lot of them too. So, for the sake of ease, I’m creating this “quote it” post that I will add to and update whenever the mood strikes! Tha...
At some point in life, we all get to the point of consequence. This point in life is where you realize that your decisions and choices about life have become permanent. They can’t be changed, f...
https://surprisinglives.net/reaching-the-point-of-consequence/
Jane Lurie, one of Surprising Lives’ popular guest authors, is not only a spectacular photographer but also a stunning storyteller. With her recent blog post, House On Fire, a tribute to Greta ...
Dan Pallotta is a well-known speaker, author, and charity fundraiser. Deepak Chopra says the following about Dan; “DAN PALLOTTA IS THE EMBODIMENT OF AUTHENTICITY, INTEGRITY, COURAGE AND HIGHER ...
https://surprisinglives.net/as-good-as-it-gets-dan-pallotta/
After helping people for approximately 20 years, and working through my own personal traumas, I’ve realized that survival and thriving often come down to three things in life. The three things ...
“No matter how hard you try, some people will never change.”
“I’m not perfect. I don’t always say the right thing. I don’t always do or think the right thing. I run when I’m scared. I hide when I’m ashamed. I say too much. And other times I’m...
Oh boy, we (bloggers) have overcomplicated things. Watch this video originally shared by Matt Mullenweg for a refreshed perspective. I think it’s time we simplify things again and get back to o...
https://surprisinglives.net/bloggers-overcomplicated-things/
Be a lady they said. Your skirt is too short. Your shirt is too low. Your pants are too tight. Don’t show so much skin. Don’t show your thighs. Don’t show your breasts. Don’t show your mi...
PhotoArt on Instagram is super hot these days, filling our feeds with beauty. So you may wonder what it is exactly. Generally, although not exclusively, PhotoArt is enhanced photography. And m...
One of the good things in life is connecting with someone new and immediately feeling a “click.” Their attitude, perspectives, or whatever, clicks with yours. And if you’re fortunate, they ...
There has been a massive increase in the use of social media – from being almost non-existent 15 years ago, it now takes up a major part of our lives and our children’s lives. Facebook, for e...
https://surprisinglives.net/what-has-social-media-done-to-us/
Over the years since I’ve been blogging a few people have continued to inspire and delight me. One of those people is the very talented Su Leslie of Zimmerbitch. WordPress. Com. Su has been a p...
“Never forget that you are one of a kind. Never forget that if there weren’t any need for you in all your uniqueness to be on this earth, you wouldn’t be here in the first place. And never ...
“But once in a while, you pick the right thing, the exact best thing. Every day, the moment you open your eyes and pull off your blankets, that’s what you hope for. The sunshine on your face,...
https://surprisinglives.net/you-pick-the-right-thing-quotes/
It’s Monday evening, and the TV is on while I putter around doing miscellaneous things. Admittedly I like having the background sound on more than I appreciate what’s showing. But, as I sat d...
https://surprisinglives.net/who-we-love-and-dating-sites-bs/
When the world says, give up.” Hope whispers, “give it one more try.” I’ve been asked to try out a new design app called Design Wizard. This is my first creation which I think turned o...
Remember, you are not what you have suffered, battled, or been through. Your scars may remind you of the war, and you may feel broken. But to me, your scars paint a map of your triumphs, and your...
Happy Christmas Eve from Surprising Lives featuring Christmas Eve by The Trans-Siberian Orchestra.
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The Benchman series of images impressed me from the time I saw the first one. Creator Trev Jones has been a friend of mine for a few years, and I knew that he had a unique sense of creativity...
Surprising Lives has always aimed to help, inform, and offer the many perspectives of all people in our world. One current topic is, are Jews in The USA safe, particularly considering the recent...
Japan, in many ways, is a graceful contrast of high tech and traditional rituals. But the Japanese have managed to marry the two in balletic harmony. Today’s Japanese culture excels in the tech...
“If you desire to make a difference in the world, you must be different from the world.” -Elaine S. Dalton “we must be free inside to make a difference outside.” – Vishal Mangalwadi “...
https://surprisinglives.net/being-a-difference-in-the-world/
“Just look at me with love, and I’m invincible.” – ©2018 Amanda Ricks ‘Just,’ a simple word and video post.
I like the night. Without the dark, we’d never see the stars. – Stephenie Meyer It was the possibility of darkness that made the day seem so bright. – Stephen King Night is a time o...
“You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop.” – Rumi Such a beautiful message by the ever eloquent, Rumi.
Fear is scary. It can be so overwhelming; it can paralyze you, leaving only shards of piercing panic ripping at your every nerve. Fear acts like screeching breaks on your mind and body. You’re...
“Death is nature’s way of saying, ‘Your table is ready.'” – Robin Williams Canada HBO has an upcoming Robin Williams special which prompted me to remember and miss once again the irre...
“In solitude, there is healing. Speak to your soul. Listen to your heart. Sometimes in the absence of noise, we find the answers.” ©2018AmandaRicks
“Be the love you never received. Be the acknowledgement you never got. Be the listener you always wanted. Look within at the younger versions of yourself and give yourself what you always neede...
“The best parts of your life will be the small, nameless, moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.” ©2018AmandaRicks
“SOWING LIGHTNING Seize Bolts of lightning from the sky And plant them in fields of life. They will grow like tender sprouts of fire. Charge sombre thoughts With unexpected flash, You, my li...
Know what you want to do, hold the thought firmly, and do every day what should be done, and every sunset will see you that much nearer to your goal. – Elbert Hubbard Photo from my Pinterest Bo...
“Whatever’s good for your soul… Do That.” – ©2018AmandaRicks I created this image quote for my Instagram a while back, and everyone liked it so much I wanted to share it here too. It m...
“When your heart feels heavy like a ball of lead, and the walls start to build themselves up around you once more. You can’t help but think of how this even came to be. The one you love didn�...
“Letting go of who you are, who you feel you should be, who others want you to be, is one of the hardest things. But it’s the only way to find who you might be, and can be.” ©2018AmandaRic...
“I’m a loner, I’m allergic to judgmental people.” “thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge.” “It’s okay to judge ME. Just remember to be perfect for the rest o...
People who are judgmental and people are problematic psychologically. Judgmentalism involves making negative assessments of other people and thereby enhancing their sense of worth by comparisons ...
https://surprisinglives.net/spot-and-manage-judgmental-people/
“Distantly the city hummed, while coloured lights streaked glimmers down the street. The stale breeze whispered her hair, she smiled, while her beloveds laughed joyfully behind her. Yes, this i...
“Evening slithered it’s way across the sky, bringing darkness and trepidation. As the light lowered, the monsters stirred, emerging from the corners, and making the old house creak with their...
“Plant seeds of happiness, hope, success, and love; it will all come back to you in abundance. This is the law of nature.” ― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life an...
https://surprisinglives.net/nature-beautifully-blossoms-blue/
“You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting. You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves. Tell ...
True personal account of my youngest daughter's endocarditis and massive heart surgery. The fight she went through, our faith throughout and the wonderful teenager she is today. By Amanda Ricks v...
A Place in the World that’s mine? Although I’ve lived here, in Canada, for decades now it doesn’t feel like my place. England, where I was born, or Costa Rica, where I lived for awhile befo...
https://surprisinglives.net/dont-want-to-miss-my-place-of-well/
I’ve had the pleasure of knowing the very talented photographer, Su Leslie, and her blog Zimmerbitch for about four years. Throughout those years Su has repeatedly impressed me with her stunn...
https://surprisinglives.net/magic-macro-flowers-by-su-leslie/
“She acts like summer but walks like rain.” – Amanda Ricks 2018
“I think that if you have a dream…you can do it..if you really really have that dream and you’re willing to sacrifice and you map out a plan that you’re not going to fail and even if you ...
Toronto is currently featuring a stunningly beautiful exhibit from Yayoi Kusama at The Art Gallery Of Ontario. Her work and the displays are breathtaking and innovative leaving visitors with visi...
https://surprisinglives.net/yayoi-kusama-art-exhibit-toronto/
“Love with all of your heart, create with all of your soul, live with all of your energy, and you will inspire others to do the same. – Amanda Ricks (c) 2018
I find rain and especially rainstorms to be so peace inducing. Listening to the pitter patter or rush of rain on the windows brings a beautiful sense of calm, coziness, and tranquillity. But n...
A while ago I wrote and published one of my Original Image Quotes about how creativity feeds the soul. I’ve known this but mostly failed to acknowledge and incorporate it into my life. https:...
https://surprisinglives.net/science-creativity-enhances-life/
“It is the supreme art of the teacher to awaken joy in creative expression and knowledge.” – Albert Einstein “All you need is one safe anchor to keep you grounded when the rest of y...
Those of you who know me, even the slightest bit, know I adore cats. Especially my baby, Lexi. In fact, I’m pretty sure I’m a prime candidate for becoming a cat lady in my senior years. Here,...
https://surprisinglives.net/cats-purr-worth-thousand-smiles/
The door shut with a click, and peace rolled in. The chaos and crazy eased, retreating like demons at dawn. Comfort spread its wings, soothing the heart so tired. Solitude emerged as invited, off...
Sunrise: “Light streaks the softening velvet sky as if innocently saying, “it’s me. it’s time,” and morning erupts into the distant sky with sparks of fresh new chances.” – Amand...
“Maybe we should stop comparing sunrises and sunsets. Instead, just see and feel the awesomeness of whichever one gifts our present place in life.” (c)2018AmandaRicks I wrote this earlier i...
I love this post by Floridaborne or Joelle LeGrendre, one of our regular guest authors. I’m sure you will agree with me, especially if you’re an animal lover. It may coma come as no surprise...
https://surprisinglives.net/cant-pick-family-but-can-love-them/
Healthy relationships don’t come with handbooks, and there are no courses or tests to make sure that everyone is fit. Plus, sadly, many of us were brought up in dysfunctional environments and e...
Who lived in a magic castle… Which she shared with her most precious love… Her fur baby, called Pebbles! And they lived happily ever after. This has been a Fairytale Story by, ...
An eerie bluish light surrounded my daughter in this photography post for, Out Of This World.
A fun video featuring some of Surprising lives' top posts set to music. Welcome!
Toronto is hosting the Wildlife Photographer of the Year, at The Royal Ontario Museum. This competition is the longest-running nature photography competition in the world and has been sho...
https://surprisinglives.net/wildlife-photo-of-the-year-toronto/
A beautiful and fun photographic and quote curation for the word, sweet. By Amanda Ricks. Photography assistance by Samantha Leigh Wilson.
Treasure life. See, hear, feel, inhale a forest scent, imprint each moment. In surprising ways we find everyday gifts meaningful. If you want to participate, here’s the link: http://ram...
“Take me to where nature soothes my soul and my mind can run free in the wilderness.” – 2018 Amanda Ricks
Discover through photography and quotes a unique and touching perspective on the word, beloved. Quotes by Toni Morrison featured. Post by Amanda Ricks
https://surprisinglives.net/you-are-your-best-thing-beloved/
After too many days filled with data, should do's, and deadlines I realised that my friend had been right. "It's creativity that nurtures the soul." ~ An original image quote by Amanda Ricks 2017
Fall, why fall? Because the air has a crispness that fills your lungs with a coolness that soothes and refreshes. The summer slips away slowly, and autumn radiantly glows brighter every day dippi...
Casa Loma is Toronto’s Gothic Revival castle built by controversial capitalist Sir Henry Pellatt in 1914. The structure of the castle is very impressive and it’s easy to spend hours wanderin...
https://surprisinglives.net/casa-loma-structure-failed-capitalist/
An updated complete review of the type of people, called, people fixers, who try to always fix other people's problems and life stress instead of allowing them to accept their emotions naturally ...
Curves, Corners, however, you look at it, Toronto has a few interesting ones it likes to show off. One of Toronto’s most photographed downtown corners, The Gooderham building, known for its co...
Adorable edited photographs of my new baby tortoise shell cat, Lexi who I adore submitted for the WP Photo challenge for the word, Ooh shiny. By Amanda Ricks
My graphic art interpretation of the WP Photo prompt for, Elemental
Yes, of course, looking completely calm and deep in thought, while she sat, is fact, (i)on the surface. But inside a torrent of discrepant feelings silently raged. This is an entry in the WP P...
The evening settled on us like a welcome mediator. Dimming the stark reality, hushing tones, and muffling our harsh thoughts. I heard a sigh and wondered if it was another unspoken apology or mer...
I slowly stretch my leg, extending my toes and feel a warm round softness by my feet. Purring rumbles back gently from under the warm covers. I snuggle back down into the depths of relaxation ...
Fictional Perspectives On Apocalypse 1. Most people hate the rain, ruins their hair and makeup. Gotta wear ugly rain boots, cars splash you when they pass. Some people love the rain. Standing in ...
I love the look and feel of the simple and rustic country. The uncomplicated life where you can hear silence as if it was a real thing. In my dreams, one day, I will have an escape in the country...
"Those hot summer nights spent on the porch, with my skirts hiked up, a glass of perspiring lemonade beside me, and a drip of sweat sliding torturously down my temple."
Image quote created by my favourite Photo editor, PicMonkey: crazy-awesome photo editing “Some moments are as special as the breeze from an angel’s wing on a summer afternoon.” ©2017Aman...
Sharbat Gula, The Afghan Girl, has mesmerised the world, first with her stunning green eyes on National Geographic's Cover and now with her continued life story. For the first time read her whole...
https://surprisinglives.net/sharbat-gula-afghan-girl-updated/
I think I originally wrote this in 2015 but recently found it in my files. I immediately thought of the valiant struggle that a blogger friend of mine is currently experiencing. With that thought...
I love this post from Su Leslie of Zimmerbitch. My comment at the time was, “Wow, what a beautiful post, photographically, articulately and, oh yes, certainly metaphorically! ? I hope you enjo...
I’m so proud to share a video made by AJ+ featuring my daughter, Samantha (Ricks) Wilson honouring Canada’s Indigenous lands and people.
https://surprisinglives.net/students-honour-indigenous-lands-and-people/
When I first heard American Pie, it was many years after it had been a hit, yet it was still played almost non-stop within the group of tweens that I hung out with. Don Mclean’s song really hit...
In 2015, I posted a three-minute video of Lotte Hofeester which recorded the first thirteen years of her life in time-lapse as taken by her father. It was a cool video showing all the different ...
An opinion and views post about people who are negative and who tend to be drawn to caring positive people but then leech off them and often drag them down to their level. By Amanda Ricks
“When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.” ~Jimi Hendrix My daughter is working on a school project for the end of term at school and has chosen to feat...
Visiting Maasai Village was one of the programs of our Safari Tour in Maasai Mara. On our second day after having lunch at the edge of Mara River, Tom, our guide and driver, took us to a Maasai v...
As we lay our heads down this Christmas Eve may we say a prayer for the greatest gift of all. Peace On Earth. Blessings to everyone no matter where you are. from Amanda and family And here is one...
https://surprisinglives.net/you-are-not-alone-christmas-eve/
Just a few days after a controversial departure from Pakistan, it was announced that Sharbat Gula had Hepatitis C and would be traveling to India for treatment. It seemed as if Sharbat, “The Af...
Sharbat Gula has returned to Afghanistan. She is safe, and I am grateful. I have been following Sharbat Gula and her difficult life story for a few years and her recent circumstances have concern...
https://surprisinglives.net/sharbat-gula-returns-afghanistan/
Her name, Sharbat Gula, in the Pashto language of the Pashtun people, means sweetwater flower girl. Her photograph of 1984 taken by Steve McCurry was National Geographic’s most famous photograp...
https://surprisinglives.net/sharbat-gula-arrested-needs-help/
For seventeen years Photographer Steve McCurry was haunted by the young girl with the mesmerising green eyes that he photographed in Afganistan in 1984. As he says, not a week goes by when someo...
https://surprisinglives.net/sharbat-gula-afghan-girl-search/
Action affects our thoughts, Our thoughts affect our feelings, Our feelings affect our mood. So open that front door and keep putting one foot in front of the other until you feel better. ~ ©201...
Everyone has been there, probably many times throughout their life. A point when stress, worry, fear of the unknown, anxiety, or any other number of things seem overwhelming. Perhaps you feel smo...
A photo essay showing great pictures and writing about the beautiful and Mystical Mayan ruins and pyramids in Copan, Honduras. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
Life is about living. It's in the doing, not the finishing, succeeding, or winning.
https://surprisinglives.net/life-about-doing-original-quote/
This is what mindfulness really is, for some reason, it has become so over-complicated and overwritten. Just be in the moment. “Just Be In The Moment” ©2016 Amanda Ricks
A photo essay featuring the beautiful Native market in Chichicastenango, Guatemala. Wonderful pictures are shown along with descriptions of the people and the area. By Amanda Ricks @surprisingliv...
Shane Koyczan, photo courtesy of his Facebook page. The infamous poem “To This Day” was written by Shane Koyczan and he has been performed readings wo...
Dr. Amelia Shepard, Power Posing. (Photo courtesy: Youtube.) In March 2015, I wrote a post that started by saying: I admit it; I am a Grey’s Anatomy fan. Last week’s show centred around Dr. A...
https://surprisinglives.net/amy-cuddy-pose-fake-it-become-it/
Black Line Studio Toronto, Canada. Tattoos are no longer huge garish things that only people who don’t tend to live in the mainstream wear. Today, every type of person can find, like, and enjo...
https://surprisinglives.net/black-line-studio-toronto-tattoo/
By Author Winslow Eliot. Winslow Eliot’s Website
Be Your Own Definition Of Amazing~Quote They keep saying that beautiful is something a girl needs to be. But honestly ? Forget that. Don’t be beautiful. Be your own definition of amazing, alway...
original quote on an image by Amanda Ricks. Quote title "Be A Warrior." surprisinglives.net
Sometimes, or perhaps I should say when it really matters, when the result is of particular importance, you just need to get mad and fight. Yes, of course, we should keep our faith, stay focused ...
There is a lot of unnecessary pain in the world. I’m not just talking about war and violence, but pain we cause others and ourselves as well. We make meaningless things important. We hurt other...
A great post demonstrating what I think is Floridaborne’s (Joelle Legendre) great humour but what she calls “I’m at a Loss for Words.” “My mom used to say, “I’m at a loss for word...
An original quote from myself and my friend MichelleMarie. We, (okay, mostly Michelle!) came up with it one night, last winter during one of our long chats about life. It seemed so fitting.
Once you realize that life is a journey you can relax because you know that sooner or later there's always a rest stop. ~Original quote by Amanda Ricks
A free writing post that also includes an examination of the concept that "Love is not in the fixing but in the trying." A new and wonderfully interesting idea about love and all relationships. q...
Awhile ago I left a comment for Terry of Spearfruit saying that “Love was in the trying” and that he and all of us need to remember that. We must try to forgive ourselves and stop carrying ...
Never let someone that has given up on their dreams, convince you not to go after yours.”
Do you feel you’re spinning your wheels in life? Does it seem like things haven’t changed in the directions that you wanted them to over the last few years? Consider perhaps creating a Life G...
Do you want to be able to pursue your dreams? To be able to live your life according to how you feel you were meant to live? To be the person you believe you were supposed to be? To be able to sa...
Psychology is really relatively simple and in some ways comes down to five core points when understanding people. I have had the pleasure to learn, experience and practice some different roles in...
There is a massive wave of inspirational doctrine including psychological advice, coaching, miscellaneous information, quotes, etc. focused on telling people that they alone are liable for their ...
Women who are addicted and in recovery face a very different journey than men. The issues that women face in this area need to be addressed separately and with care. A brief list of these issues ...
Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson about being angry and losing sixty seconds of happiness. Post by Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
Sharbat Gula the young Afgan girl who mesmerized the world from a national geographic cover for 17 years was an enigma. But where was she today? Found out what happened.
Some people will never change” is one of my site’s top search terms. Surprised? I agree. In fact, I thought it was some fluke until it kept showing up every day month after month. I love wat...
Is it possible to stay in your marriage through thick and thin without losing a part of who you truly are? How do you stop from building inner resentments over the years for all of those little t...
https://surprisinglives.net/relationships-success-commitment/
Western society today abuses the entire concept of a "promise." The term is overused and often broken. Our terrible divorce rates can attest to that. We need to stop making promises unless we mea...
A list of traits exhibited by toxic people. Toxic people can include everyone from dysfuctional people onto psychopaths and Narcissists. Insights from Karen Young from Hey Sigmond and Dr. Travis ...
The Landscape of my Mind is an original quote on a beautiful ocean seashore photograph. By Amanda Ricks
A look and explanation of the top most effective tips for emotional health that are used by millions of people with tremendous success. The author draws facts and information from her own experie...
Three simple and easy concepts or attitudes to adopt that will help you achieve happiness. Including study results from Sonja Lyubomirsky. By Amanda Ricks
A new concept that suggests that people fall into three different types of the creativity spectrum. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives 2015 Author brings her own experience from the field of psycho...
A wonderful video by zefrank1 that beautifully explains how to appreciate life and life quality by using jelly Beans.
“Compassion is a priceless trait that will always benefit yourself as well as others.” ~An original “Photo-Quote” ©2015AmandaRicks.
Don’t wish to be someone else. be someone who others wish to be. ~Image quote ©2015AmandaRicks
A review and happy examples of the work of Norman Thelwell. Norman Thelwell was a British cartoonist best known for his wonderful Thelwell Ponies series of books. Examples of some of his great ca...
Featuring the incredibe motivational video Dream by Mateusz. M and also including some quotes from the video to highlight the message. by Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
An examination of our society's obsession with youth and how it is turning away and shaming older people. By Amanda Ricks
https://surprisinglives.net/disillusionment-of-growing-wiser/
A creative free writing about the wonderful stillness, loneliness and rebirth of rain. By Amanda Ricks
Original quote on an image. Quote and design by Amanda Ricks. Title: I Believe In Fairy Tales. surprisinglives.net
One of this site's top Original Image Quotes and posts of all time. "Motivation occurs when the fear of change is diminished by the greater fear of not changing." ~ Amanda Ricks 2015
“Life or Art” an Interpretive Creative Art Photograph by ©2015Amanda Ricks
A creative art photograph in an Andy Warhol type of image showing a woman throwing her arms up in celebration. Andy Warhol's quote about the future is included. By Amanda Ricks
A creative art photograph that depicts a possible interpretation of "Future" perspectives. An original quote accompanies the photograph.Created and written by Amanda Ricks
A fun photography post relating to the WordPress Photo Challenge for "Vibrant." A gallery of intensely vibrant photos of the same Poppy are shown all in different hues and tones of bright photo e...
The problematic topic of "fixers." People who always try to fix other people, their problems, and everything else all the time instead of just being there and letting others work stuff out. These...
Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it. Quote, author unknown.
Scientifically proven but very simple guaranteed tips for a happy relationship. By Amanda Ricks
https://surprisinglives.net/scientific-tips-happy-relationship/
A fascinating look at Hilari Hamm Rogers from FB who has over 45,000 followers. Is she a marketing genius for a fiber diet supplement or just a cool woman who has a faithful following who love he...
10 powerful motivational sentences that can help you focus and succeed in life. By Amanda Ricks
https://surprisinglives.net/10-powerful-insights-ensure-success/
A feature of the top commercials for Christmas 2015. The top one is the always amazing contribution from John Lewis. By Amanda Ricks
https://surprisinglives.net/the-best-of-a-commercial-christmas/
The discussion of IQ and type of occupation by IQ is discussed. A table of jobs by average IQ is included as well as an explanation of different IQ score classifications. How much impact should I...
WP Photo Challenge for the word "eye." I submitted a photographic creation of a portrait of my daughter using overlays to create a very futuristic and dramatic picture. By Amanda Ricks
Our Inner Voice. We all have a voice inside us. Sometimes locked and hidden, silent for no one to hear. Find the key and unlock that voice, let it out and set it free. Original Image Quote ©2015...
We (especially women) must always remember to look after ourselves first. Self-care should always be our number one priority. Five ways to help ensure that we are practising self-care are offered...
"People who judge don't matter and people who matter don't judge." Image quote
Featuring the author's discovery of passion for creating photo quotes.
Nature’s Gifts: Kiawah Island, SC Stunningly beautiful photography ©2015 Jane Lurie.
Be a "Giver." Show love, caring, and kindness first. Original Image Quote ©2015AmandaRicks
6 photographers take 6 completely different photos of the same man. a video shows the story why. By Amanda Ricks
https://surprisinglives.net/6-photographers-see-6-sides-of-man/
Quote, "Some People Will Never Change."
A personal account of the incredible bond and freedom between myself and my horse that I had as a young girl. By Amanda Ricks
"Life always knows when to give make-up tests!" Original Image Quote ©2015AmandaRicks
A recent study revealed that people who are guilty prone are better in relationships. Seven specific points that these people are particularly good at are mentioned. By Amanda Ricks
https://surprisinglives.net/guilty-people-great-relationships/
Be Careful To Protect Our Beautiful World
https://surprisinglives.net/be-careful-to-protect-our-beautiful-world/
"All of us are enlightened in our own unique way." ~ Amanda Ricks. An Original Image Quote 2015
WordPress Photo Challenge: A Happy Place. A photo of a typical tree and landscape of Costa Rica where I lived for approximately a year as a child. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
Western society today abuses the entire concept of a "promise." The term is overused and often broken. Our terrible divorce rates can attest to that. We need to stop making promises unless we mea...
The road to happiness in answer to a question sent into Miss Surprisinglives. Bronnie Ware's Book is mentioned as a reference for life regrets. Then a list of guidelines for personal satisfaction...
https://surprisinglives.net/essential-steps-fulfilling-life/
Everything We Need..."Everything we need is inside us. We just need to sit quietly with ourselves and be open to hear it." Original Image Quote ©2015 Amanda Ricks
time lapse video, Night of The Nothern Lights. Surprisinglives.net
Seth Godin Quotes. Post by Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
A post that explains some of the most common psychological dysfunctional ways in which people operate. A light and easy to read tone is used. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
A post of insightful questions on image cards for readers to read and possible ask themselves. The exercise will hopefully give them some insight into their beliefs, feelings and opinions about l...
Weekly "Introduce Yourself" post. Questions on images are posted for readers to ponder and write about to give themselves greater insight to themselves. Their responses are written into the comme...
Pebbles Pebbles was carefully picked out by my then 11-year-old daughter from a shelter adoption agency as a special Elementary School Graduation gift. That was six years ago. Pebbles can look ra...
A profile of blogger and author Joelle LeGendre. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
A profile of photographer and blogger Nurul Lubis. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
An introduction about and a copy of a wonderful response written by a young man to a depressed student looking for some help and guidance. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
“Fear kills all dreams. Fear kills all hope. Never give in to the fear.” ~2014 Amanda Ricks Updated
A new weekly event is starting on surprisinglives.net. Each week a post will be published asking a few simple but soul searching questions. Readers are asked to respond via the comment section. R...
https://surprisinglives.net/surprising-lives-introduce-yourself/
"Who Are You" Part Two. A series of questions on image cars for people to ask themselves. The answers will help them to learn a lot of insight about their hopes, fears, goals and attitudes. By Am...
A sarcastic post that looks at the hypocrisy of many people when they make judgements about others and things. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives
“Sometimes we don’t need advice, we just need someone to listen.”
How well do you know yourself? This is the question that this post helps you answer. Included are some beautiful image cards with insightful questions to ask yourself. credit to marcandangel.com ...
The subject presented is Psychopaths including a concise introduction into the symptoms and sliding scale of severity of symptoms involved. By Amanda Ricks @ surprisinglives.net
beautiful pictures and description describe the hot springs of Los Chorros, El Salvador. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglices.net
Fictional, very funny conversation a Mother has with herself about her teen daughter being out late at night. By Amanda Ricks 2015 @surprisinglives.net
Everyone has a dark side. A part of them that harbours their less attractive attributes, thoughts, feelings, desires and actions. Without our dark side, we would be unable to see or appreciate ou...
When I first saw this video link I couldn’t stop laughing, it was so amazing. This is really rare because I hardly ever laugh out loud at videos. Since then I have watched it a few times and it...
Quote: Saying You’re Sorry by Amanda Ricks 2015 “Never say you’re sorry simply to placate another’s ego.” ©2015 Amanda Ricks
If I shut my eyes for a minute, I can feel the warm sunbeams reaching out across me. The Sun’s brilliant light is blinding even through my closed eyelids. Peace is still settled around the Mesa...
No is supposed to mean No. a post recapping the original quote "The Art of No" by CaptainAwkward.com via professorpinka
Original quote on an image by Amanda Ricks. Post by Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
Shadow boxing is a post from Two on a Rant. I have been introduced to this amazing blog and one of its authors Floridaborne. I am now a Two On A Rant, junkie. This post is a beautifully written ...
World-renowned and award-winning Author Winslow Eliot is one of those people who I hold in high regard. She and I enjoy a good relationship in which we share our work, ideas, and opinions thro...
Featuring the incredible motivational video, Unbroken by Mateusz.M. Post by Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
Original quote on an image by Amanda Ricks about judgemental people. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
https://surprisinglives.net/those-that-judge-original-quote/
A vividly fun photographic project by Amanda Ricks and Samantha Wilson Vivid: (dictionary.reference.com) adjective ~ Striking, bright or intense as colour, light. ~ full of life, lively, animated...
I love stories, articles, and websites that explore people. My interest in people, cultures, and societies has never left me since my days of studying Anthropology at University. Whenever I come ...
A blog about People, Life and all the Stuff in between.
Happiness by Winslow Eliot – Author
I love time-lapse photography and when I come across a really good video I always share it with everyone on my blog. This time-lapse video is definitely worth watching and features a stunning vis...
I woke up early to go and take some photos of a haunted mansion in Tokai in Cape Town. I got lost down a dirt road of sorts and noticed how gorgeous the heavy mist looked as it hung low over Toka...
A blog about People, Life and all the Stuff in between.
https://surprisinglives.net/how-you-as-a-woman-must-learn-to-say-no/
Tree of Life: Amazing Photos That I Love Source Unknown
Will Ellis has a fascinating hobby and blog on which he records the findings of this hobby. Will finds and investigates abandoned buildings etc in the New York City area. He then photographs h...
The Beautiful Blur of our Christmas Tree 2014 I absolutely adore Christmas. Due to this, I start my preparations in the early fall each year! However, despite my early start and careful planning ...
Top 14 secrets you can use for a happy relationship. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
https://surprisinglives.net/top-14-secrets-happy-relationships/
Warning rated PG! Every generation of teenagers has their own set of words or phrases that they use to describe things. Unfortunately, however, this lingo is usually completely alien to their par...
https://surprisinglives.net/teen-lingo-finally-uncovered-for-you-to-understand/
“The road rising to meet you.” “Happiness- Feb. 5. 2015” Courtesy of Winslow Eliot-Author
https://surprisinglives.net/earth-beautiful-infinite-hurting/
Winslow Eliot-Author Feb. 8, 2015 https://www.winsloweliot.com/happiness/
Spider Project: Things You Never See The following time-lapse video is absolutely stunning. The sights shown are breathtaking and I really hope you take the time to give it a view. Most of the fo...
Amazing time-lapse video of Lotte Hofmeester's first 13 years of life. Post by Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net
https://surprisinglives.net/time-lapse-childs-first-13-years/
Happiness Feb. 4. 2015 by Winslow Eliot http://winsloweliot.com/happiness/
The wonderful story of the traditional practice of facial tattooing by the women of Kobane. A large array of photographs are included. By Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives
Australian artist Sonia Singh is giving second-hand Bratz dolls “radical makeunders” to make them look more like the children they’re designed for. Now, her Tumblr images of these “Tree C...
“I know one thing for certain… absolutely, positively for sure… Courage is stunning to watch.” ~ Andrea Owen
Random acts of kindness have become very popular in the media lately, and I wonder how many people are practising this concept. Perhaps part of getting people to participate in this excellent ide...
“You’re only given a little spark of madness. You mustn’t lose it.” – Robin Williams
“Embrace the glorious mess that you are.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert I love this quote, it’s funny and also so motivating. I had to share it.
“When it seems that nothing’s happening, that’s when everything’s happening.” ~ Ian Hecox This is so true, isn’t is?
Camp Oki is a unique camp in Muskoka Canada for kids with congenital heart defects. It is run by volunteer staff from the Hospital of Sick Kids in Toronto, Ontario. Full funding is supplied throu...
“What’s wrong with death sir? What are we so mortally afraid of? Why can’t we treat death with a certain amount of humanity and dignity, and decency, and God forbid, maybe even humor. Deat...
Beautiful photograph of the tropical rainforest in Costa Rica. Post by Amanda Ricks @surprisinglives.net