Resilience is often thought of as snapping back to baseline. Time after time, I am reminded that during major transitions, baselines are altered permanently. So, resilience isn’t really about g...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/11/nothing-will-ever-be-same.html
She claimed she was tired of waiting. It seemed like she was always waiting and time was running out. Some of the waiting was just part of the course. You have to wait to finish with school to ...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/10/waiting.html
There is nothing more boring than speaking to a disempowered human. We all have fallen prey to feeling disempowered from time to time. It isn’t a pretty sight. Disempowered people are distrac...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/10/top-10-ways-to-identify-disempowered.html
Time spent inside the crucible is difficult and sometimes even painful. It’s the time in between. It’s when what you are going towards isn’t here yet. It’s the hardest when what you are ...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/08/enjoying-journey.html
I’ve been blogging since 2009 and I was surprised to find out that my most read article is the one I posted on 10/03/2010 entitled: Top 10 Reasons People Stay Busy. Last Sunday, I read an artic...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/07/why-do-we-need-to-be-busy.html
A while ago I had asked my single female coaching clients who had raised their now adult children as single moms what if anything they would have done differently. The answer I received was the ...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/06/guilty.html
Most of my clients are women. The women I work with are very self-aware and know what they’d like to change or improve. Sometimes, their self-awareness can backfire, especially, when it leads t...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/05/top-10-apologies.html
Why is it that the most complicated and challenging relationships are with the ones closest to us? I often hear that my clients get along well with co-workers and friends. In fact, their out-...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/05/disconnecting-from-our-families.html
I like to know how the story ends. I like to be prepared. I like to know what all my options are. I like all this because it gives me a sense of peace and calm. I don’t like dealing with emer...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/05/uncertainty-instigates-drama.html
When faced with tough decisions, it is easy to get distracted with emotions that creep up out of nowhere and sabotage your ability to move forward. If you are unaware of what is happening, the ...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/04/transitions.html
It is inevitable. Whenever you are sitting on the fence about something, sooner or later you will be pushed to jump off and make a decision one way or the other. It is as if, by putting yourse...
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The transition process is challenging whether it be a divorce, loss of a loved one, or loss of a job. What makes it even more difficult is the fact that the light is shining on you. Eyes are on t...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/04/private-nature-of-transitions.html
Endings are prevalent in my world. My coaching clients are all experiencing loss or death. Whether it be the death of a relationship, a way of being, childhood, a tradition, a job, innocence, or...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/03/on-endings.html
Everyone claims that they want ultimate authority over their own fate. Regardless of what your political or cultural inclinations may be, on paper we all want to be independent and the master o...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/03/sovereignty.html
I coach many people who are self-declared perfectionists. They typically know this about themselves and yet find it hard to deal with especially when they have multiple deadlines or an important...
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His 13 year old daughter comes home and announces that she is going to a co-ed party that is going to last until midnight. He is faced with what to do about this declaration and about his own fee...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/03/beginners.html
I frequently coach clients on the area of spiritual development . Most have a solid spiritual understanding and want to enhance or embrace it into their lives. Some are curious about spiritualit...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/02/spiritual-development.html
This is part III of a series of posts on this blog on obstacles to creative expression. Third obstacle: • Expectations and Fears The “what ifs” can be a huge obstacle on the pat...
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This is part II of a series of posts on this blog on obstacles to creative expression. Second obstacle: • The need for knowledge, expertise, recognition, acceptance, … The more we do some...
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This is part I of a series of posts on this blog on obstacles to creative expression. Coaching professionals in the corporate world who want to express their creativity is a challenge I love to...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/02/obstacles-to-creativity-part-i.html
We just got back from a wonderful college tour trying to find colleges my son would be interested in applying to. What I enjoyed the most about this last college was what the Dean of Admissions s...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/01/influence-is-two-way-street.html
A prospective client had recently called me and wanted to know how and what techniques I used in my coaching . There are lots of fancy words, techniques, methods, and names of other leaders in th...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/01/to-coach-is-to-provoke.html
The most dangerous and destructive energy drain out there is one that is addictive, deceiving, manipulative, contagious, sneaky, and readily available. We are all guilty of partaking in it and of...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2012/01/drama.html
He said he was hopeful for the New Year. I was concerned about him, he was about to lose his father to a terminal illness and he hadn’t been taking it too well. Today, he said he was hopeful....
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It was a cool, crisp, but sunny day in Manhattan. I was delighted to be engaged in a lively conversation with a 27 year old cousin of mine that I had just met. Our conversation lead to an older c...
http://evolutioninconsciousness.blogspot.com/2011/12/in-love.html