[Image] How to not be hard on yourself : GetMotivated

Cool, thanks :D I think it's fair enough to intensify with "every single" but I agree with a lot of what you've said here. I had a similar problem when I read in my high school English textbook...

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Hey man, I'm still in HS, and right now the only people who believe in me are my family. I'll find other people one day, and you will too. I hope whatever you want to do, no matter what it is, I'...

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A lot of these commenters utterly missed the point of this graphic. Sometimes, people become paralyzed because their inner drill sergeant, which is often a useful voice, goes a bit haywire and th...

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What I took it to mean is that you can develop a way of dealing with your weaknesses that actually turns them into something good. For instance, I have a terrible memory - so I carry a little not...

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Where to start? The first problem is that you should never begin a negative phrase with a positive adjective - i.e. "Every x is not y." This creates an ambiguity. It's much clearer to state "No x...

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☜(ﾟヮﾟ☜) You're cool

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and sometimes the motivation does not work in their situation. For example that last comment about hanging round people who want you to succeed, well generally most people don't want you succeed ...

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After being with my fiancé for so long, I have come to realize just how unsupportive my own mother was. It's a really sobering realization and definitely makes me wonder what I might of done if ...

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Stand up for what you believe - assuming your beliefs are grounded in factual evidence and logical reasoning - even if its unpopular.

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This shit works on people who don't need and and doesn't work on those who do. Looks nice and gives a fuzzy warm feeling all over, for 5 seconds, then, reality.

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> don't underestimate your talent until you apply it 100 times FTFY Seriously though, one saying that I take to heart is "you are your own worst critic". In other words, as bad as yo...

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There is a right way to do certain things. Like spelling, pronouncing names, filing taxes,

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I call bull crap. You'll never reach your full potential if you're not hard on yourself sometimes.

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This sounds like the opposite of getting motivated.

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> Accept your weaknesses as your "Features" I'm struggling to wrap my head around this. Does that mean it's good to suck?

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Most of this advice is terrible from a psychological perspective

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shit like this is why millennials are worthless crybabies.

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I could make all of these negative.

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What do you see wrong? Is there some difference between what it says and what you think it means?

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Now if only my wife could see me the same way...

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How is intelligence relative?

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Reddit isn't a party. We can be a little contentious here without being accused of being uncool.

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Where the fuck can I find people who want me to succeed? What fairy tales be those?

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What a load of shitspunk.

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No right way to do anything? 3 * (4 + 2) = 14

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I hate this picture just because the first and the 3rd images on the first line contradict one another.

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It's the specialty of /r/getmotivated .

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This is pretty bad advice tbh.

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It's because it's a default sub. The vast majority of people seeing these posts are not, in fact, people who want to get motivated. If it weren't default, I think this sub would be a much more po...

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> Look at your past as an adventurous biography. With a picture of > Darth Vader. The guy who spent 20 years running away from his past while living under an assumed identity. His ...

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I think this is true of reddit as a whole and not just /r/getmotivated . There's this cynical "harden the fuck up" attitude towards life that gets treated as gospel. And anything positive or opti...

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> Every single problem you have is not unique. Tell that to a programmer

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"Learn from the criticism of others" and "Accept your weaknesses as your 'features'" seem somewhat contradictory.

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See, I'm in an in between problem. I have friends that dont give a shit either way. They don't think I'm not good enough or anything, they just are too worried about their own success that they d...

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You sound miserable.

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so don't be white?

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Congrats for what you did. Continue to make new friends who challenge you, inspire you, and believe in you. Nothing is quite so relieving as realizing that you don't "owe" people time who contrib...

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Remember the part about hanging around people who lift you up? Yeah, don't hang around these comments and don't listen to the negative ones.

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"Accept your weaknesses as your features" Nietzsche would roll over in his grave!¡!¡

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Great motivation, but could be taken in such a wrong way. Let's just take Hitler for instance. He can be a prime example of someone following this chart.

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"Accept your weaknesses as features" This is how we get irredeemable assholes who refuse to anything about how asshole-ish they are people ....

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The one at 4 over and 3 down is the first one I would prioritize. It's amazing how motivating a positive environment can be. I don't throw around the phrase "life-altering" a lot but it's life-al...

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I so needed this today.

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Schocking.

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A very nice way to tell others how to deal with your self but sometimes it is hard to forget your past and to leave all the things behind. Though this image is my inspiration from now but what yo...

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I don't even know where to start with this compendium of stupidity

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"Stand up for what you believe, even if it's unpopular" Uh huh. Tell Le Reddit that.

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There's a lot of machism too -- some people here seem to be afraid to look 'soft' and instead enamour themselves with this hyper-masculine self-hating 'toughness' and have a poisonous obsession w...

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good advice

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I like some of these, but there are a whole lot of things which have right and wrong ways to complete the task. If you don't think so go work at a bank and decide to give 20's out in place of 5's...

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There is a right way to do things

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I've been pointing this out when I can. This is ridiculous. These people make me feel bad. There should be a positive thinking only rule.

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I'm going to set this as my phone wallpaper

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"Every single problem you have is not unique." The good news is that you are "not unique" in your inability to express yourself coherently.

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These need asterisks or footnotes.

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Love this. Although darth vader isn't a very good example of looking back on your past. Hahahahahaha

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A more accurate way to say it is that there's many right and wrong ways to do a thing. The spirit of the statement is that just because you're not doing it the same way as everyone else doesn't i...

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I want do this, but I'm scared that applying a lot of these will lead to me being content with where I'm at in life and losing motivation.

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> don't compare yourselves to others because you are not them  >  > accept your weaknesses as your "features" What's a good way to explain this to my manager without sounding l...

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Standing up for what you believe, when it's unpopular, is the opposite of "how to not be hard on yourself." It's very, very difficult - which is why I have so much admiration for people who do it...

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No the reason for "fat acceptance" (really just body acceptance) Is because making people feel like shit for being fat makes them fatter. Source. http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/ob...

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It's a pretty good list, but at the same time, I feel there's still a missing problem. If a lot of people already knew this, why aren't they doing it.

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> there is no right way to do anything Yes, there is. There wouldn't even be mistakes or failures if this was true. And we need errors and mistakes.

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I'm sure you're very popular at parties.

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That last one reminded me of Aleksey Vayner

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This is the youtube comment section of reddit comment sections.

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I'm feeling better now

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Oh, I surely did. Shortly after this post was submitted someone spammed the thread with comments about cheese graters, and I reported every one.

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Becoming a game developer was very much this. I still don't have any friends that are outgoing. Game development itself is a field you only get into with self motivation and drive. So that leaves...

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How smart you feel can depend on if you are around people more or less smart than you, but genuine self esteem is not affected by others. That's why its called "self" esteem

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That's why they say it's lonely when you're on top.

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Murdering those younglings, what an adventurous memory. Don't be so hard on yourself, Anakin.

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Please report comments that don't contribute to the conversation and that are non constructive, malicious, off-topic or otherwise rule-breaking. We remove those, but we volunteer our free-time ...

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What so many people don't get is that challenging yourself isn't about being more determined with your own beliefs, but opening your mind up to other modes of thinking. It's much easier to rest i...

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Yeah, it kind of happened on accident. At first I was just pretending to like people, and that didnt help so i started paying attention to how situations between other people turned out in a posi...

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Half drunk. Read title as "How To Not Get A Hard On."

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> What is this? 

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I only disagree with your first point. It doesn't "make us equal." Differences are actually good. But they are no means a measure of self-worth. It's not right to strive to be someone else becaus...

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"Don't underestimate your talent until you apply it 100 times". This one really hit home for me. I feel like I always give up easily on things I want to learn, simply because I believe I lack the...

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Perhaps Vader isn't the best role model.

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'There is no right way to do anything.' Electricians disagree.

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For me I guess I am a realist. People are too overly concerned about themselves to care about other people's success. Unless it benefits them somehow. Jealousy is part of human nature after all. ...

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Fuck these comments. Take whatever motivates you, jump up again, and get back in the fight. If you think you aren't good enough, stopping now won't make you any better. You either make yourself...

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Wow that's pretty huge that you changed and discovered in what is actually a pretty short time. I too am working on that. I don't really see the bad in people but I do criticize them in my mind a...

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"There's no right way to do anything" So I can just do whatever I want, however I choose and no one will correct me anymore? Cool.

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I think the point for some people to come here is to feel better about themselves, and they can't help that their dormant negativity comes out. It takes a long time to realize that it is exactly ...

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Thanks so much! It's pretty exciting and over the past year I have started so many new hobbies an interests it's crazy! That's the other half of why I don't talk to a lot of old friends they aren...

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I wish I had a past like Darth Vader.

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Wow you're at a major turning point it sounds like! That's pretty exciting. Everything changes now, even this period where you are alone is going to change so much. You're going to actually get a...

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I have just been through a round of interviews and was feeling pretty crappy about myself. I am not good enough. I'm not sure if I ever will be. I feel like hurting myself. But it's exactly wha...

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By writing this you obviously don't need, or understand these tips. Your overall comment is encouraging people to stop coddling themselves. But the thing is the people this post was intended for ...

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What is Darth Vader doing in there?

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I hardly consider my life as adventurous as Vader's

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God, seriously, this is a nice little graphic and as always, we've got a bunch of cynical pedants expressing how this and that isn't true in this or that specific circumstance.

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Some people find more pleasure in making others feel like shit than they do in building themselves up into a good human being.

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Don't worry if you start a major and part way through you realize you hate it. I didn't figure out what I wanted to do until I was 24.

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They have a picture of a guy kickboxing which is a great activity, but not one to release anger in. You're right, but the picture is still misleading.

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Good luck dude! In trying to do the same. Early 20s is a very lonely time if you let it be!

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I have nothing productive to say other than that this is some of the best ways to live your life

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When you learn how to do all those things teach me how.

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If there's a right way to do something, it means there's also a bad way to do it. So in this I case I interpret this text as, it's better to do something even it's not "right" than not doing it...

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But why do it have to revert to the opposite extreme, instead of being something in the middle? Can't someone be not hard on themselves, but motivated; and not exculpatory, but responsible for th...

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> Better advice would be to stay calm and reflect on it. Sounds creative.

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Thanks for reading them and saying this! :)

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> I don't miss those guys at all! 100% this. Every time I think back on my choices of who I got rid of I think "did I make the right choice?" and every time it's a yes. There are a very s...

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Thank you for saying this on all of these.

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It's true...

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"intelligence is relative, self esteem is not" what mean?

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Well, to be fair, it's not a guide on how to succeed at anything in life. It's how not to be hard on yourself, which is going to be apologistic.

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Nice. Did you make the infographic?

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Hey, I'm in that same boat! On my way to graduating school but changed schools and found out the hard way that my friends didn't give a shit about me. At my new school, no one gives a shit about ...

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There is always more than one correct way, hence no one right way.

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Holy crap I was going to write the same thing! I cut out many people some time ago. Now I have only an handful of friends I know I can trust completely. You know what makes me sure I've done th...

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There is always more than one correct way, hence no one right way.

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I had bigger issue with "There's no right way to do anything" Uh, in some cases yes there fucking is.

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The title is literally "How to not be hard on yourself", not "You're broken."

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> The path to success is paved in failure. Cliched, but very true. The > stories I used to write were AWFUL. Your first Youtube videos, > probably pretty bad, right? ...

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Oh, I had plenty of people like that in my life. Total burnouts. They criticized everything I did, without actually doing anything themselves. The path to success is paved in failure. Cliched...

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Some of these are pretty destructive and really inadvisable. > There is no right way to do anything. This is deluded. If you adopt this viewpoint you'll get nowhere. > don't compar...

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The last one is the best. Even if they are people on Reddit whom you'll never meet in real life.

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That's probably the most plausible reason I can think of as well

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If I had to guess, it's because these people are looking for an image macro to magically turn their lives around and then blame anyone but themselves when it doesn't work.

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Choose to have their nonsense be your challenge -- think about how they are correct but also wrong. It sharpens your beliefs and makes you and your arguments/points stronger.

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Sorry you had to deal with that but you published a book that is amazing! In a way I think that's cooler than being an actor and those freinds of yours sound like douches anyway. Mine is quit t...

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Seriously, this isn't "how to be successful" as most people here are reading it as. These are literally just steps for people who are too hard on themselves.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/330nua/image_how_to_not_be_hard_on_yourself/cqgk6q2/

My whole life the people I called friends told me I wasn't good enough. They were all going to go off and become movie stars and CEOs, but I was too stupid for any of that. They tore me down be...

https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/330nua/image_how_to_not_be_hard_on_yourself/cqgk3q4/

Haha yeah, I don't understand all of this hostility.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/330nua/image_how_to_not_be_hard_on_yourself/cqgk3ny/

Why is that? This community has such a polar opposite comment section compared to what gets posted here I'm confused. Are all the commenters just here to dissect and destroy the posts?

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Awww <3 Finally someone! haha thanks I'm not even setting out to have people believe in me because I believe in myself I just can't stand negative people

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I know a three leggeded dog named champion that would disagree

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Very creative comment; good way to vent your anger about it.

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/u/Sheehan7 , you are PRO and I can't wait to see you succeed!

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You missed the point of 2, 3 and 4.

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I'm going to call crap on the "express your anger" part. You shouldn't attempt to express your anger at all, even productively. The Catharsis Hypothesis which states that you should "release" you...

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its a disadvantage compared to two

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ITT: People who read the title as "How to be a good person" or "How to succeed" rather than its actual title and are now upset that this graphic encourages people not to be hard on themselves.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/330nua/image_how_to_not_be_hard_on_yourself/cqgjowu/

This picture is a load of bullshit to me.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/330nua/image_how_to_not_be_hard_on_yourself/cqgjn1h/

> Stand up for what you believe... I won't stand up. I will sit down and keep doing what I believe in without giving a shit about whatever others think.

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Right. "DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT THEM." Eh? 'He may be more attractive/muscular/intelligent/kind/outgoing, but I am me! I am not him! And this makes us equal!' Bollo...

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There is no right way to do anything Pretty sure there is.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/330nua/image_how_to_not_be_hard_on_yourself/cqgj85t/

"Express your anger in a creative way" angrily draws a stick figure stabbing another stick figure

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There's nothing more demotivating than the comments on /r/GetMotivated threads.

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I spy Darth Vader.

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"Surround yourself with people who want to see you succeed" I am desperately trying to do that right now. After graduating high school last year I noticed that most of my friends just didn't give...

https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/330nua/image_how_to_not_be_hard_on_yourself/cqgj089/

A feature is not something you necessarily accept; accept the fact that you were raised on fast food, accept that you crave it, and then overcome.

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I suck at all of those :( crawls off to corner

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