Wow. I just read this entire post and I am floored. I wonder if we all got here the same way. Looking for a connection between BPD and demonic possession. My ex wife is BPD. She is regarded as th...
Oh man!!! Living with someone with mild BPD is hell. I’ve been married for 18 years to my husband. He never had any physical abuse that I know of but he have experienced abandonment and rejecti...
Met a person with BPD who's psychologist (one of the top in the county) diagnosed them and also acknowledged their hobby with gunsmithing and shooting was therapeutic during and episode.
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/bpd-guns-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-41836
It might help to change the name of the illness. The problem is that personality disorders are construed as something fixed and unchangeable. As far as I know, there isn’t an official medicatio...
*meant to say I remember a time when I could NOT resist making an attempt when seeing the online hate. I appreciate what you are doing, and it was completely non-existent when you first started p...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-41725
It’s all so interesting. Well would be if my mother has not been bpd. I feel not enough was done to protect me from her abuse and control. I am in my 60,s and still bare the effects as I now ha...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/understanding_accountability_bpd/comment-page-1/#comment-41417
My neighbor's boyfriend recently purchased a gun for her and from what I know of her she's engaged in manipulative, stalking, and possessive behaviors with past boyfriends...I don't think she sho...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/bpd-guns-suicide/comment-page-1/#comment-41411
Personality disorder certainly implies bad person . I too never say real diagnoses. I lie feeling bad and just say depression. I also got tagged with hysteronic personality disorder.The latter pr...
I had to realize I couldn’t handle my disorder on my own. I never learned teamwork when I was younger. My life was a constant state of trauma and walking on eggshells and in turn, I projected t...
Empathy is important but only in so much as you use it to separate respectfully. They won't change. My experience with a BPD was that I was lied to for years, mirrored, manipulated, and purposely...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/understanding_accountability_bpd/comment-page-1/#comment-37828
Commenting on this point here that you made: "I say it doesn’t exist because a person with BPD has dysregulated emotions. When they feel kind, happy, desperate, anxious, sad, angry, etc. they a...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/myth-hoovering/comment-page-1/#comment-37797
BPD is demonic posession, there's no other explanation for the evil that is BPD.
Epileptic and autistic individuals do not betray, disrespect, or abandon their spouses and children. Borderlines do these things regularly and without remorse. The evil and cruelty of BPDs is unm...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/borderlines-evil-bpd/comment-page-1/#comment-37695
That list is too long.
Someone once said you only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. This is exactly the thinking behind the concept of womens sober living. Women’s getting addict to drugs and alcoho...
Whether it’s arguing about political policy or social issues, the term “hand up not hand out” comes up quite often. Whether you agree with that term or not, or the political arguments such...
It's so comical that this article is so classic BPD - avoidance of responsibility and denial of abuse. Dating a borderline is no different than dating a narcissist or psychopath. Outcome is the s...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/borderlines-evil-bpd/comment-page-1/#comment-36130
I tend to think she is BPD too especially the way she had a tendency to burst into tears.
Correction: We at TARA are grateful to you for establishing a BPD blog that helps those with loved ones with BPD learn more about the disorder, share their experiences, and hopefully feel less al...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/contact/comment-page-1/#comment-35474
I found this post from years ago after reading Debbie Curtis's and Peter Hooks books about Ian. I feel so strongly that he was likely borderline, not depressed like most people have characterized...
One of the rules listed is to not be judgmental. My bpd husband gets offended when I make the wrong facial expression or my breathing when he’s talking. He takes it as me being judgemental. Wha...
http://www.anythingtostopthepain.com/my-4-x-4-video/comment-page-1/#comment-34606
I completely agree. There is a disconnect between the BPD person and the non-BPD person. The BPD person has a completely different way of thinking. They will completely drain a non-BPD person of ...
I came to this site a long time ago, and it was a useful place to begin learning to understand my experience with my now ex-wife. However, I was having some difficulties, as it did not precisely ...
I would like to add to my previous comment that Megan Fox does NOT actually "have" Histrionic Personality Disorder, rather she exhibits "some" of the classic signs of a Histrionic, without actual...
I just found this website, and was browsing a bit. It has been 6 years since Mantru posted her heartfelt request for some advice and support at the top of this page. Somebody posted a rather inse...