I am, by nature, a very stressed-out person. I’m anxious by default. My wife is the opposite, completely unflappable. When just can’t be bothered by something fussy, I step in and take care o...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/09/12/surrendering/
Hi everyone. Thanks for the kind messages and questions at lovecherishobey@gmail.com over the past few months. I’m writing this in a new “working from home” outfit: a fitted navy-and-white ...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/02/01/winter-update-a-new-phase/
I ended up doing a lot of cooking, cleaning, and laundry this past weekend. It’s just the way things worked out. As I wrapped it all up on Sunday night, I felt a real sense… More
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2015/01/27/what-i-like-about-being-a-submissive-husband/
I’ve recently noticed something interesting about becoming subservient to my spouse. As I become more and more subservient, I’m get the blame for many more things than I used to. In most marr...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2015/01/24/when-it-stops-being-a-game/
My wife and I have found that her dominance of me, and my submission to her, is the right way for us to build our relationship. Over time, we’ve explored new ideas, and have both… More
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2014/12/24/changing-expectations/
One of the most wonderful things about being a submissive husband is the fact that I can help my wife be the best version of herself that she can be. My wife has always set a very… More
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2014/05/04/empowering-my-wife/
My wife and I were recently talking about the fact that we don’t try to hide our female-led dynamic. It’s fairly common knowledge among our friends and family that ours is a female-led marria...
Submissive Self-Improvement I’m not entitled to many opinions as a submissive male (and one of those opinions is that fewer opinions in a male is usually a good thing). But one opinion I feel s...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2013/11/06/submissive-self-improvement/
In my previous post, I talked about my wife only a little. She loves having a sissy, submissive as a husband. But why? She loves the obvious stuff–she gets whatever she wants. Her pleasure come...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2013/11/02/my-wife-is-not-just-dominant-shes-superior/
The trends are clear: the dynamic between men and women are changing. It is obvious that everyone has benefited, and these shifts are just beginning to be felt–most of the progress toward equal...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2013/10/27/spreading-the-word-about-female-led-relationships/