I spent much of the last year researching "Sacred Sexuality," looking for an sensual spiritual place or time or community. I didn't really find anything. I found bits of things - a dark room, som...
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You should write this part up on your web site, she said - a brief respite from our kissing. But make the people anonymous, we agreed. It was obvious what had triggered this notion from her: we w...
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A rotating cast inhabits my Venice summer sublet. One gent living there briefly works as a host, entertaining people at various bars and parties around town. As an artist friend said, "that guy i...
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My favorite personals post title of the day: "BiPolyPagan Faerie Princess Seeks Handmadien" - now I'm just trying to figure out where I fit in that particular fantasy....
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I'm officially predicting the return of bazooms - pointy tits. Enough of this round, bubble shaped sweater melons. I see missiles in shirts in the near future - torpedo tits. Breasts like I saw i...
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Robert Johnson sings some soul-chilling blues music. Fantastic stuff. I've had his albums for years, savoring the echoes of thick sin and payback from another time. Recently, reading about his li...
When I was travelling in Japan I would occasionally run into foreign women who were working there in the "entertainment" industry. These women hailed from Russia in particular, as well as Southea...
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I think it's been weeks since I had an orgasm. It's been long enough that I can't remember. I think I was with someone else, a friend, and we were touching each other - it was a conscentual, even...
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This is fantastic, from Fleshbot - someone has taken the Japanese pornographic video game model, and Japanese pornographic video game themes, and rendered it on the web. In English! Terrific home...
I registered myself on AdultFriendFinder, with a picture or two and some basic info. As I wrote before, I've gotten some lively offers - not exactly the sorts of relational transactions I envisio...
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a night of blind group sexuality in San Francisco Casual sex is difficult, because attachments invariably form between the parties. And if one or both of the parties can't or won't sustain the at...
I tend to wear my interests front and center, like a loud T-shirt. What are you studying? people asked me this month, and I would reply with a short speech about sacred sexuality. My friend Lulu ...
"Getting It On(Line): Report From the Internet Dating Trenches" 16 March 2004, South by Southwest, Austin, Texas Meeting people over the Internet has gone from being the domain of scaly computer ...
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My interest in Sacred Sexuality starts with uninformed intuition - a sense that there is something deeply spiritual to erotic acts. When humans join in intimate touch or sexual congress, there is...
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I'm still coming down off of my night - dancing my ass off to the Lovemakers - most of their music sounds like 80s James Bond themes; whatever your feeling, in person they make a foot move and a ...