So how did I learn to just relax and let Daddy fuck my brains out? I can not emphasize enough how important my square peg plugs were. I always really wanted to be able to get fucked with ease, th...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2012/08/fuckin-part-2.html
Loyal readers will know that I have always had trouble bottoming. In fact, it was just about a year ago that I got fucked for the first time. I had tried a few times before that, but it just neve...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2012/07/fuckin-part-1.html
Well, it sure has been a while. I'm sure plenty of you are wondering where I've been and why I haven't been posting. To be honest I didn't really know why I stopped posting. It all started to f...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2012/03/gotta-get-myself-into-it.html
Thank you to everyone who commented on my most recent post. Please know that Daddy has chosen a punishment and it will be coming soon. Things are currently pretty busy over here in Daddy's den, a...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/12/punishment-forthcoming.html
From the comments on my previous post from "Anonymous": "I think that since bad boy Ben has not posted recently we should all come up with a punishment we find suitable that his Daddy will have...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/11/punishment.html
A few weeks ago, Daddy informed me there would be a new system of discipline in the home, and it all had to do with a small glass cup. He came over where I was sitting and put it in my hand so I ...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/10/spanking-cup.html
A few months ago, Daddy sat me down and we talked about discipline. More specifically, we discussed what each of us wanted from out relationship in regards to discipline and authority. I felt som...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/08/house-with-consequences.html
Daddy, I wanted to shoot you a short email about what happened this morning. I know from your perspective, this probably still doesn't count as a real spanking, but for me it was pretty intense...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/07/ive-written-letter-to-daddy_24.html
In my experience, there are three categories of men involved in discipline: 1) spanking fetishists who leverage the intimacy, humiliation, and regressive qualities of discipline as a form of ...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/07/discipline-boy.html
Despite my youth, I have always felt my interests were pretty concrete (especially recently). Excluding the occasional stray fantasy, my interests have been fairly consistent over my years of exp...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/06/discipline-daddy.html
No post this week. I'm down with the flu.
I know you have all been wondering where I have been for the past few months. If you hadn't already guessed, a lot has been going on lately. The number one reason I haven't posted in three months...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/06/daddys-boy-ben.html
I have found that most of the guys I know who are like me have tried self bondage. By like me, I mean have bondage as a very specific interest. Bondage isn't just a means to an end (sex). Bondage...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/03/self-bondage.html
Roughly every two or so years, I have the inclination to retry chastity. I think that is roughly how long it takes for me to forget about how much I absolutely hated it the last time I tri...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/02/on-chastity.html
Secrecy is a funny thing. I have spent a lot of time on this blog and in general talking about how important it is to be "out" as kinky players. I believe in that just as much today as I ever did...
I'm at MAL. Is there anyone out there who wants to keep me bound and gagged for a few hours? haha
Biggest apologies for the delay, my loyal readers. I’m on winter break from school, which means every aspect of my regular life flew out the window for a few weeks. As m...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2011/01/aaaaaaaaaaaand-were-back.html
Oof! I just realized its been half a month since I've posted. Granted, I have been dealing with finals for the past two weeks so I am not going to apologize. Still, I do wish I had gotten around ...
Ben's recent instructional bondage video inspired me to set up a hands on lesson with him, and I wanted to share some of the pointers I picked up. We began with the nuts and bolts, and practice...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2010/11/practice-by-sente.html
The other day a friend shot me an email to ask if I was the model in this pic he found online. Sure enough, I was. This shot was taken two years ago by photographer Joe Oppedisano. I met him whil...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2010/11/scouts-honor.html
As Thanksgiving approaches, I'm feeling an awful lot like I was last year: sick and contemplative. It's true. I came down with a cold last year a few days before Thanksgiving and I'm having deja ...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2010/11/thankfully-ben.html
A public journal of the thoughts and experiences of a young boy trying to find his way through a leather labyrinth.
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2010/11/bondage-how-to-two-column.html
So I have tried to upload the tutorial three times over the past few days. Each time, after an hour or two of "Uploading", I get the message "There was an error in uploading your video, please tr...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2010/11/we-are-experiencing-technical.html
If you're looking for the first installment of Ben's instructional series on bondage techniques, I'm afraid you are going to have to wait until the weekend. Why, you ask? He hasn't yet taken...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2010/11/punishment.html
I am FREQUENTLY asked to teach others how to tie people up. Having done so in the past, I feel comfortable saying that the most important factor in learning how to tie is a focused desire. A lot ...
http://beninleatherland.blogspot.com/2010/11/bondage-how-to.html