I am, by nature, a very stressed-out person. I’m anxious by default. My wife is the opposite, completely unflappable. When just can’t be bothered by something fussy, I step in and take care o...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/09/12/surrendering/
Hi all, I’ve put a link to my BDSMLR toward the bottom of the right-side column. It’s certainly less classy than this blog, but a lot more imaginative. Emails are great, but I’ll also be…...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/09/05/summer-2019-chastity-update/
The funny thing about my Wife-led marriage is that, because it’s just the right thing for the both of us, it has come to feel normal and predictable. Hence so few updates–I honestly don’t f...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/08/22/summer-2019-orgasm-control-update/
Hello everyone! I’m taking a break from some chores today to write an update. Thank you to all the really thoughtful dominants and submissives who have contacted me via email. I have moved the ...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2018/04/26/spring-update/
If you’ve been reading this blog, you know I haven’t been in chastity the ENTIRE year. Here’s an update: My wife’s interest in chastity comes and goes. She loves the effect it has had on�...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2016/01/24/update-my-first-year-in-chastity/
Having spent much of the past year locked in chastity, I have undergone huge positive changes in my life. From reading and communicating with other locked and submissive males, I have come to bel...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2016/01/21/should-more-men-be-in-chastity/
If you think of all the things that come with being in a D/s relationship, most of what you list will be sexual in nature. It’s primarily acted out in the bedroom, in the quest… More
As a submissive, being cuckolded is the purest form of our kink. It’s the complete package of surrender and humiliation. Pegging is a close second. These are universal themes for submissive me...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2015/08/16/sexual-freedom-beyond-cuckolding/
I ended up doing a lot of cooking, cleaning, and laundry this past weekend. It’s just the way things worked out. As I wrapped it all up on Sunday night, I felt a real sense… More
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2015/01/27/what-i-like-about-being-a-submissive-husband/
I’ve recently noticed something interesting about becoming subservient to my spouse. As I become more and more subservient, I’m get the blame for many more things than I used to. In most marr...
https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2015/01/24/when-it-stops-being-a-game/