I just finished reading an article about a woman who gave vent to her frustration when ‘life happened’ by lashing out at people who came anywhere near her. That got me thinking. Is there a be...
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Do you ever come across somebody and you think, “Wow! They’re so calm, so real, so wise!” I have many times. And I wonder, “how did you get here? How come you are who you are? As I’m bl...
Do you believe in the crystal ball school of communication? If you believe, “if you really loved me, you’d know” then I’m not surprised if you’re disappointed more often than not if you...
I was looking back to last week and what my life looked like. I asked myself, “What does your life look like – good, bad, indifferent?” I certainly remembered the last 3 weekdays. I can�...
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First, a caveat: When I say that taking risks is the key to a happy life I mean considered risks, not rash or impulsive ones. Having said that, there are two types of risks – physical and emoti...
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One of the things I love about reading is that it helps me discover things I didn't know about love and also to understand myself better. The post Things I didn’t know about love appeared fi...
Our mindset, our beliefs about ourselves and the other person, our judgements about them and ourselves, about our (often subconscious) beliefs about what we deserve – or not. The post What st...
First, a caveat: When I say that risks are worth taking, I mean considered risks, not rash or impulsive ones. To me, the riskier and scarier ones are emotional risks. Those are the ones that make...
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A while back I was interviewed by The Telegraph for their new weekly section in The Telegraph Magazine called ‘Change of Life’. The interview was for a first-person feature about somebody who...
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Every time you start noticing and challenging your false beliefs you will feel anxiety. That’s all right. It’s part of the process. Stay with it. The post Should I tell the truth? Yes? No? ...