Love, Cherish, Obey

I am, by nature, a very stressed-out person. I’m anxious by default. My wife is the opposite, completely unflappable. When just can’t be bothered by something fussy, I step in and take care o...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/09/12/surrendering/

Hi all, I’ve put a link to my BDSMLR toward the bottom of the right-side column. It’s certainly less classy than this blog, but a lot more imaginative. Emails are great, but I’ll also be…...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/09/05/summer-2019-chastity-update/

The funny thing about my Wife-led marriage is that, because it’s just the right thing for the both of us, it has come to feel normal and predictable. Hence so few updates–I honestly don’t f...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/08/22/summer-2019-orgasm-control-update/

Hi everyone. Thanks for the kind messages and questions at lovecherishobey@gmail.com over the past few months. I’m writing this in a new “working from home” outfit: a fitted navy-and-white ...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2019/02/01/winter-update-a-new-phase/

Hi everyone, spending a day at home doing some work work, some housework, and updating you on how things are going in my chaste, female-led marriage. The biggest news is that I have a new… More...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2018/07/12/summer-update-i-and-therefore-my-chastity-are-both-smaller-now/

Hello everyone! I’m taking a break from some chores today to write an update. Thank you to all the really thoughtful dominants and submissives who have contacted me via email. I have moved the ...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2018/04/26/spring-update/

I can’t believe it has been two whole years since I posted to this blog. I’m sorry. I have no excuse. I’ve heard from so many wonderful dominants and submissives in that time, and I… More...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2017/12/27/a-tale-of-two-marriages/

If you’ve been reading this blog, you know I haven’t been in chastity the ENTIRE year. Here’s an update: My wife’s interest in chastity comes and goes. She loves the effect it has had on�...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2016/01/24/update-my-first-year-in-chastity/

Having spent much of the past year locked in chastity, I have undergone huge positive changes in my life. From reading and communicating with other locked and submissive males, I have come to bel...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2016/01/21/should-more-men-be-in-chastity/

My wife is enjoying new ways of helping me express my feminine side. This is hardly the ‘forced feminization’ of internet fantasy–I’d like to be fully sissified, but my wife isn’t real...

https://lovecherishobey.wordpress.com/2015/12/02/a-submissive-sissy-boys-christmas-list/